Okay, so 31 days or so have past and now you want to know exactly what to text your ex. Well, you’re in luck, because in this article I’ll outline several different types of text messages that you can send your ex to make him or her miss you, and want to take you back.
Of course, although I can’t fully guarantee these text messages will work get your ex back overnight, I can guarantee that they will increase your chances of getting your ex to at least respond to you in a positive way. And from there, you’ll be able to start the process of getting your ex back into your life… for good!
But first, let me tell you what not to do.
What NOT To Text Your Ex The Pointless Text
This is something that you must absolutely avoid doing if you want your ex to text you ever again. It’s what I like to call the “Pointless Text.” You know exactly what I’m talking about when I say this, and yes, you probably hate it as much as I do.
Do you ever get text messages from your friends and family just saying one word? Like “hi” or “’sup”? It absolutely aggravates me. But even something as simple as “Hey, how are you doing?” or “Hey, what’s up?” can be just as bad.
Why are these so bad? Well, first of all, they’re pointless because they don’t rile up emotions at all. In fact, they almost will give your ex a negative image of you. You sound bored, uninterested, and frankly, not like a happy person at all. By sending a text like this, you are sub communicating to your ex that you are unhappy with life and that you need to talk to him or her. Don’t do this.
(IMPORTANT: If you want to learn a number of texts to send your ex to make him or her beg and plead for you to come back, then I strongly advise you to watch this video. It’s by Michael Fiore, and it’s easily the very best “how to get your ex back” program out right now for getting your ex back through text messages.)
So what should you text? The first one is what I like to call The Good Reminder Text
This is one of the first texts you should be sending your ex. I call it the Good Reminder text. Essentially, what you want to convey to your ex right now is that you are totally over him or her, but you are still thinking about them from time to time. It is designed to make you look thoughtful, happy, and it makes it looks like as though your text message has a point to it.
Here are a couple examples of the “Good Reminder Text”.
“Hey. Just was watching the Dallas Stars play the Vancouver Canucks tonight and your favourite player scored a goal! Made me think about how fun watching those games were!”
“Hey, Matthew Good Band is playing at the McPherson Playhouse next month! Thought you’d like to know because I remember how much you loved them! =D”
Get it? They’re pretty innocent, right? Also notice a few things about this text. I use a few exclamation marks here and there. This is really important. Exclamation marks convey happiness.
What To Text Your Ex – The Feel Good Text
The Feel Good text is my secret sauce.
A few days after you interact with your ex, you’re going to want to use one of these text messages. It’s pretty similar to the first text, but it takes it a step further.
Basically, you’ll want to recollect a moment in your relationship that was extremely powerful and positive. Then, you’ll want to remind your ex about that moment again. But you’ll have to describe it fully and great deal in order to evoke a really big emotional response from your ex.
Here are a couple examples:
“Remember how good it felt when we saved that little cat from that tree? I just remembered how good that was holding your hand after we saved her. Hope all is well with you.”
“I just remembered that time we were stuck in that rain storm at our parent’s place, home alone… and how great it felt holding you in my arms in front of that fireplace. Hope things are great.”
Again, there are a ton of other text messages that you can send your ex right now that will optimize your chances of getting him or her back. So watch this video by Michael Fiore… he’s been on the Rachel Ray show because of his program. It will surely help you get your ex back in almost no time at all.
Hopefully this article helped you explain what to text your ex!
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